If you have not studied the Bible, then you may be surprised to observe what is spoken of on its pages about sex is absolutely positive. It does not restrict, but encourages sexual intimacy within the boundaries of marriage. Genesis chapter 1 reveals to us that God is not embarassed concerning sexuality. Adam is delighted when God makes Eve, absolutely stupefied at her beauty. God commands them to make love and satisfy the world with young. The twosome were not ashamed or embarassed. This is God's idea of true Christian marriage, and Christian sex in the setting of healthy covenant relationship between one man and a single woman. Completely liberated from any shame. No fear at all. Just devotion and enthrallment in one another. Unembarassed. We find sinless delectation in one anothers virtuous and shameless nakedness.
The Bible in the same way continues its wholehearted endorsement of sexual closeness and enjoyment of the marriage bed for those who are attached to one another in firm marriage covenant.
Yes, the Bible does decry some intimate practices, and yes, sex between a man and a woman is reserved for those who are married.
But no where do we ever detect a condemnation of sex as something incorrect or soiled.
Intense sex and wonderful intimacy is not once condemned in the Scriptures however.
Even the single Paul the Apostle encourages married couples to regularly and frequently make love, and not refrain from sexual intimacy for extensive periods. Sex should be a usual and pleasurable element of your Christian marriage.
The Bible even includes an entire book dedicated to celebrating sensual love between two starstruck lovers. In the book oral sex is spoken of, and other sensual enjoyments between the lovers.
It is a passionate, red-hot, head-swimming account of love, and of sexual encounter between two lovers.
Proverbs also talks of Christian sex being like a bracing, revitalising spring within marriage.
Christian sex and closeness in marriage ought to be a delight, and an area that man and wife are encouraged to research and enjoy. Lots of great books and teaching materials have been written to this end, helping couples to enter into the complete experience of sensual love inside their marriage. Instructive books offering diagrams and sexual advice for Christians is readily and securely available on the internet. The internet is full of information about sex, and not all of it is helpful (in fact most of it is not), but there are some first-class guides that exist that really speak to the intimate areas of Christian marriage with tasteful yet explicit detail.
So many Christians are left wondering what is ok and what is not, but when we really acknowledge what the Bible says about Christian sex it is very freeing. What are the Christian Sex rules and limits?
Thankfully we know that the Bible endorses sex in Christian marriage and wholeheartedly encourages us to enjoy our unification as man and wife. The Bible speaks of right boundaries, and of life time dedication to one spouse as the grounding for a great sex life, but within the setting of the Christian marriage bed, the boundaries are really left to the couple themselves. There are some tasteful resources that are available, which are accessible through the Internet for immediate download, which teac h about Christian sex positions and other intimate subjects in detail.
I pray that your investment in reading this article, and in other recommended resources will enrich your sexual closeness for years to come.
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